Thursday, August 24, 2023

The Day My World Ended

At sunrise of 3rd August, my wife came to fetch me in her brand new car. She sped all the way through the morning traffic to Shah Alam.



It was less than 2 minutes court proceeding and it was over. My ex wife drove me home.

The world ended for me when you said Good Bye. 

It's surreal. 


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17 comments:

  1. I have to express my condolences to you because to me there is nothing more sad than our beloved other half decide to leave us. I don't know the reason but I guess it must have been decided for quite some time already since the proceeding is so fast. My brother also said goodbye to his lovely wife and I was so depressed for a long time after that because I like his wife and I don't know what happened between them.Please take good care of yourself.

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  2. Not the end yet, TM! Carry on, you can DO it! Sending you muscles of strength... (no icon of that on my laptop!)

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  3. Your world ended but your new life begins. But you are still Thambee's Mr India Universe of all time. Run run run, your new beautiful world is waiting right in front of you.

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  4. The end is just the beginning of a new life. You'll be happy with your colorful singlehood life.

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  5. When I saw the words in your post title, I thought you had (sad) news to share about your ongoing health battle. I never thought it would be this...I guess the news is just as sad. When you wrote about the Catch 22 situation in an earlier post, I thought it was health related. I hope (and believe) you have the right support group to help you get through this. Sometimes in life, things happen for a reason. We may not understand it but perhaps God has a different calling for you. Let this not be the end of the world for you....press RESTART, TM. Take a good REST...let the healing START.....and press RESTART! Sending you good vibes and take care.

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  6. It is not the end. Continue to live and fight for those who still care and love you. Don't lose hope for those who have abandoned you.

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  7. I feel your pain. No words can describe how you feel now and nothing can make you feel better. Let time heal. Stay strong.

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  8. I am as sad as you and everyone else after saw your post...i am a divorcee too...only the two people who decided knows what's the issues to end it like mine.. it might be for peculiar reason..it might has no reason at all...but it might be for better...Do Take care..you are Not Alone

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  9. TM, you made the ultimate sacrifice of setting free the person you love and hold close to your heart. It is just like ripping out your own heart and the pain is indescribable. The sun will shine again and your world will be happy again even though now it seems impossible. Like Kris said, hit RESTART like the computer. Take good care of yourself always.

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  10. I’m so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. Please take care of yourself.

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  11. Oh TM, I am so sorry to hear the news. Hugs your way my friend, it is a difficult time, but I know you are a strong person and will come out at the end of it standing tall. Take time to grieve, to cry, to laugh, to be angry, and feel them all, but know that you are strong, and you have always dusted yourself off and get back up to face another day

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  12. Wait! What?! I am sincerely sad for you, TM. :( I have read from your blog these many years about her in your travel and in your day to day to life. This is sad. Hang in there, TM.

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  13. So sorry to know that but hang in there TM, it's not the end of the world and we all know time is the best medicine to cure pain. I hope you can dust yourself off and be the happy TM that we all know! Jia You!

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  14. Well..., I’m so shocked to know this. How could I imagine from the tone of your commenting voice on my post today? But when I saw this post title, I prayed not a bad news about your health problem. So this could be better? Your life goes on. Wish you “What ever will be, will be! “
    Yoko

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  15. Hi TM, do you know i was silently praying to buddha and merciful guan yin in my heart to lessen your physical pain as you are on your way to recovering before i hop over to your blog today. I am not good with words and i dont know how to console people. Fall down seven, stand up eight. Everything happens for a reason in life and dont ask why, in future god will help you to understand. Stay strong, cheerful and vibrant as you always are. This is life. Everybody comes and goes. Nothing is forever. Life is short and time really flies. Focus on the good and your blessings and not your losses. My silent prayers are with you.

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The Day My World Ended

At sunrise of 3rd August, my wife came to fetch me in her brand new car. She sped all the way through the morning traffic to Shah Alam. It w...